There are many questions out there that have been ongoing questions for years and of course there are some new questions that arise everyday. In this blog we will mix it up and see what you all think is the perfect or close to the perfect answer is.
1) Why is it that when most people, both men and women have someone good in there life they are never really satisfied?
They seem to always want more or seem to not give that other person the desired amount of time, respect, attention, etc that is needed. I am not saying that this is intended towards all people, but there are a lot of cases or relationships that this pertains to. For example: Someone that really takes interest in you that you are talking with on a intimate level or about to take the next step in becoming an intimate leveled relationship, provides for you the best possible relationship, EVER. Its to the point where you haven't had or will have anyone treat you any better and you find yourself chasing after someone who doesn't want to be chased. They don't give you the respect, attention, or time needed. There have been many of times where you may of had a friend or even yourself been in this situation. I need to know what is your break down on why we as people chase after what may not be best for us and not pay attention to a good thing that is already on our lives? Is this a psychological thing that we as humans possess, or is it something else?
2) Why is it that the truth hurts?
Constructive criticism is something that is supposed to build you up and make you better in what you are trying to accomplish. So when someone gives constructive criticism, is it the way that it is being said, or is it just that your being judged and it feels like your being attacked?
3) Why is it that people of the same ethnicity hate on each other?
Previously I had conversed with some friends about how in the Spanish community we have a lot of people that sometimes get asked if they are of Mexican decent, and when asked their response is very offensive and uncalled for due to the fact that they aren't.
In the African-American community in some cities and areas of particular cities and the nation, you hear phrases about someone being "too black" or "Red." We all know that this is not the way to act towards one another, but yet we have this ongoing problem within some of these cultures. What makes and gives a person the right to not accept someone due to the shade of there skin and or even the fact that their parents came as one and created a human being that has a specific background.
4) Why is it that in some areas you have people promoting ignorance, as if it is the way of life?
People so-called repping their hoods, but their hoods really aren't repping them.
My theory about this one topic is that if you are from a certain area that is considered "The Hood" and have lived a rough life,and this lifestyle hasn't gotten you or your friends and family nowhere near set goals or dreams, why promote the same ignorance to some one younger that is looking up to you, over and over again? Is it due to the crabs in the barrel syndrome? The fact that we have too many followers out here following after the wrong things in life? Let me know what you think it could be and why? and if you really would like to be heard, let the people know what you think we as a whole can do to stop this repetitive action.
5) Why is it that we have the crabs in the barrel syndrome?
It is a known fact that Jealousy is a very powerful, yet considered a weak emotion. When you actually see someone that has or is doing good in their life, why must there be a dark cloud trying to rain on that person parade? People are known to get jealous over others success and sometimes go out their way to stop them from succeeding any further, or even try taking the rewards of their success. Is this because there are some who just don't like to work for anything compared to those who do?
6)Why is it that a lot of women in the clubs expect for a man to buy them drinks just to engage in a conversation? And Men, do you feel as if you have to comply with this expectation just to converse with her?
Friends of mines had a heated conversation on this question and I feel the need to know what you think and why. For example: Someone said that we expect it because were women and you want to talk to us. I, along with the other males in the room felt that for us to be expected to buy you a drink, just for a conversation is ridiculous. We also felt that if that's all it takes to converse with a lady at the club, then she can be brought or talk to just about anyone that will buy the drink and really doesn't set herself apart.
7)MEN: The women I've talked to would like to know why is it that when Valentines day or any special occasion is nearby, why do we seem to argue and fight more which in turn have us avoid buying gift?
8) Why is it that school cost so much, and why is that we as citizens have to pay for it?
Most people say that the average American child isn't focused as children from other countries. The education system in a lot of cities are not up to par in test scores, but yet we have places that are considering cutting teachers funding, job lost, and more. All of this plays a vital role when our children pursue additional education on a College/University level. We even have adults in school or students that pay out of pocket for schooling. This means on top of having a regular job or two, they have to maintain there studies and focus on bills along they way. When Universities/Colleges think of the cost to attend their University, is this factored in? There are a lot of students that attend school that have to penny pinch and struggle along the way. Struggles such as sharing meal plans with friends, or even eating unhealthy foods, that can cause damage to personal health. Not being able to strictly focus on studies, because they have bills to maintain and more. This is a domino effect, so if given the chance to actually have a say on the pricing system and really be taking serious, what would you say and why? Back up your statements please.
9)Why is it that health care is so costly and we were once considered as the richest country in the world?
It has been told to me that other countries have free health care for their citizens so that health issues aren't as much as a problem for them. With so many people in our nation (USA) that are struggling to maintain their health, and health is supposed to be a main concern, why not have it so that health care is strictly covered by our government or have it so that people are only paying what they can actually afford? There have been times where you or someone you know has been in the emergency room and they either don't have insurance or can not afford the remaining cost of things needed to maintain there health. I would like for the people to let their voices be heard on this topic, whether on a personal aspect or on someone you know that is or has been affected by this very serious situation.
10) Why is it that the quality of a person is over looked by their presentation?
This is both in the business world and in a personal relationship. Someone may have the qualities that you or a specific company is looking for but if they do not present themselves in a decent manner, they have been known to be overlooked. Whether it's due to lack of money to be presentable or by freedom to express yourself. They say your not supposed to judge a book by its cover but we as a nation and as everyday people do it all the time. Are we hypercritical on our on words, and why do you think we do this?
I have plenty more questions that people would like to know the answer too, so there will be a continuation of questions in the future....be prepared.
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Why is it that when most people, both men and women have someone good in there life they are never really satisfied?
ReplyDeleteWe as humans aren't satisfied until we get what we want (typically) but when we finally get it or it's given to us then we become bored without the chase. As a partner you have to be able to recognize this and if you are used to giving, giving, giving....back up just enough that your partner has to ask once in a while. Make small changes, give little surprises, and do your best to keep it fresh....if not you will more than likely lose your partner's interest. Something to always remember is that people appreciate things they have to work hard for...if it comes too easy then it will be disposed of accordingly. Make 'em work for it just hard enough but don't play too many games and fail to recognize when it is time to give in or what you're pursuing may become distracted with something or someone else. It is a shame that we as a society have become so spoiled in thinking that we have the right to hurt other people and betray their trust simply because we are temporarily bored but two people on the right path can survive if they work at it, want it, and choose to entertain their mate just enough to keep it new.
This is definitely a good question X. We have too many single family homes and children raising themselves because we have lost the meaning of a true partnership and when we find the perfect combination we screw it up because of our insatiableness!!!
On another note, about healthcare, there are a couple reasons we do not have universal healthcare in one of the richest countries....
ReplyDeletea) we claim that we don't want the government in our business....the way the system works is that the doctor submits the bill and is paid directly by the government...well we the "private" americans do not want the government to know what kind of care we are seeking......this makes me laugh only because the government is watching you regardless. i'd rather know that i have access to healthcare just in case it's needed and receive equal care regardless of where i go than keep my business a secret and die b/c of the lack of access to medicine or physical care
b) in countries (such as Canada) where they have this program in place medicine is not about making money...here physicians and specialists and hospitals can negotiate for months with insurance companies about how much they will accept for their services. the same procedure may cost twice as much downtown as it did uptown........America is alllllll about making money (although many healthcare workers ARE in it for the RIGHT reasons the politics of it always come back around to getting paid)
c) if higher education was paid for or available at a lower cost physician's may not need to charge so much to pay back their years and years of education loans not to mention their high insurance premiums....it's a circle....one system needs to be fixed so the other can...realistically if we could afford education then we could also get a better job and afford our own medical insurance....